Can a mother love all her children equally?” is a question that sparks debate worldwide. For the longest time, my answer to this ongoing question was a firm “NO!”—until I became the Area Director for Area A27. Leading an area with four distinct clubs felt like being a mother to quadruplets. You serve as their primary link to the District, their most reliable source of information, their loudest cheerleader—and yet, their most constructive critic. 

In this role, I’ve learned that, just like a mother, it’s not about treating everyone the same, but rather giving each club what they need to grow. Some clubs require more attention in member retention, while others need a nudge in leadership development or mentoring. The challenge is finding balance—offering consistent guidance while acknowledging each club’s individual journey. 

This experience has taught me invaluable lessons in adaptability, patience, and the importance of listening. It’s about being a source of steady support, allowing each club to thrive in its own way, and ultimately, finding satisfaction in their successes. 

Burn-out is not a myth; it’s a real-life phenomenon that can happen to the strongest and bravest of us, especially in a role as demanding as an Area Director. The key is to be strategic and intentional with your time. Say yes, but not to every opportunity. Prioritize tasks that align with the growth of your clubs and delegate when necessary. Time management is critical, but so is having a strong support system—fellow Area Directors, District leaders, and even club members can be your greatest allies. Leaning on them allows you to maintain balance and prevent exhaustion while still giving your best to each club and its members. 

Much like a mother’s love for her children, being an Area Director isn’t about choosing favorites; it’s about offering unwavering support to ensure every club gets the care and attention it needs. In the end, it’s the growth and success of the entire area that reflect the true love of leadership. Just as a mother’s heart grows to embrace all her children, the heart of an Area Director is big enough to make space for all clubs. The secret lies in recognizing that you’re not just overseeing their journey—you’re a part of it. When you see yourself as part of the group, offering guidance becomes not only possible but fulfilling for both you and the clubs, and everyone wins together.

Now ask me again, “Can a mother love all her children equally?” My answer is now a resounding YES!